Psychological Impact of Extended Chastity

The second, and perhaps most impactful way that long term chastity will impact your life will be through your psyche. Now, of course there’s a certain level of emotional stress and frustration that comes with not being able to touch your cock. But that’s expected, we know it’s coming and I believe is a part of the experience. When feeling frustrated have a chat with your keyholder about it, they might even like to hear that the device is putting you in a rough spot.

Something that long term chastity will give you is a deeper connection with your keyholder. Many marriages I know have rekindled the flame of their relationship through chastity. Read real stories about this in my article Chastity Relationship Benefits: Obedience, Libido & Complicity.

I will always be a huge advocate of male chastity. Not only because I manufacture high quality cages for men all over the world but also because of the changes I have seen in me, my life and my relationship. I’ve lived through it all and I’ve compiled some of my experience of the Benefits of Chastity here.

Long Term Chastity Cages – What to look out for

When choosing a chastity cage for long term chastity, given that you’re the right man to be locked up for prolonged periods, you’ll need to focus on 3 main aspects in your chastity device of choice:

Chastity cages designed for comfort and long term wear

There are tons of chastity cages out there, with the most incredible and inspiring designs. As I have explained, when choosing the right chastity cage, you need to consider the purpose of it. If you’re just looking for a short and hot play session, or you want to make an impression for some pictures or events, then choosing the most unique design makes sense. But, it doesn’t make sense when it comes to long term chastity.

You’ll want your cock cage to be designed for long term wear, which means:

• anatomically shaped chastity ring that will not cut in at the base of your scrotum over time
• absence of hard and sharp edges that can cause wounds when moving around in tight pants and briefs and such.
• avoid spikes and any other kind of painful chastity device; they can be hot for a session, but they are not designed for long term wear
• choose cock cages that have open areas for air / water flow.

also avoid choosing a chastity cage based on its popularity online or on Reddit. It’s easy to be biased when it comes to this, but there’s one fundamental fact: every man is different, every penis and genital area is different; what feels perfect for someone else won’t feel perfect for you, and at the end of the day, we are all streamlining purchasing the same stuff, and feeling “great” about it…while we’re actually not.

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Materials biocompatibility and hygienic aspects

Chastity devices materials are also fundamental. Some people do well with metal chastity cages for long term wear, but for some others this doesn’t work. Allergies and sensitivity to nichel and other metals tend to show up with prolonged wear, and not immediately, and silicone or rubber are porose materials that will encourage the development of molds and bacteria.

Hygiene is really important when it comes to long term chastity, as you don’t want to develop a urethritis or any other unpleasant problematic; depending on how clean you can keep, and (again) your own individual uniqueness when it comes to your body (talking about how much you sweat, your genital area’s predisposition to develop fungi and so on).

In my experience, the best materials for long term chastity cages are:

• Titanium. 100% biocompatible, unbreakable, and lightweight, but expensive.
• Medical Grade Policarbonate. Also biocompatible and lightweight, and when there’s sonic welding, also unbreakable.

Custom Fitted chastity cages

So, when you have the right chastity cage design in the right material, you’ll want to make sure it fits without pinching, sliding off, and so on.

Believe it or not, a chastity cage can make much more damage when it’s larger than your size, than when it’s small and snug fitting. Of course, also too small doesn’t work, as you need to maintain a normal blood flow in the area.

That’s why choosing a chastity cage for long term wear is so difficult; most popular chastity cages brand are intended for mass market distribution, and selling as many units as possibile. This goes of course against managing to create a unique fit for every customer. There are, however, some artisans and makers who will give you a custom fit.

• Steelwerks Extreme
• Locked in Lust

Long Term Chastity: Myth and Reality

Long term chastity (or permanent chastity) is a fantasy and an ideal to many, a goal to some, and a reality to several kinksters. When discovering the world of male chastity, since the thrill is exactly given by the loss of control on your body and pleasure, it’s natural to start wondering “how long can I be in a chastity cage?”.

Being kinksters, we are used to use a lot of imagination to fuel the incredibile experience we live trough power exchange and fetish with our partners. After all, for us, the true sexual pleasure lives in the mind, more than in the body itself.

It’s normal, therefor, to be constantly raising the bars of our sexual fantasies; after all, once you’ve reached the goal of fulfilling a fantasy, it’s not a fantasy any longer, is it?

Most men in chastity are turned on by the idea of the chastity keys being tossed away, or to be held forever chaste by their cruel Master or Mistress. It is actually possible to be locked up in chastity for longer than your default play session, weekend or so; but like everything in BDSM and Fetish, for ambitious goals to be reached safely and happily on both ends, three things are required:

• Mutual respect and a lot of communication
• Empathy and responsibility
• Being cut for that specific fetish

Unlike chastity play in itself, long term chastity isn’t for everyone, and no one should push their limit outside of the purpose of SSC BDSM.

We have covered in detail this topic in our article “long term chastity: fantasy and reality”. We’re going to be talking about what it takes to be in long term chastity, and different aspects of it.

Conclusions

So here you have it, this is my personal top 3 selection of the best male chastity cages intended for long term chastity. I hope this is going to be useful during your consideration for a purchase of your long term chastity device, and feel free to comment and share your experience also.