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Ball Stretching for Chastity: The Ultimate Guide

Master Lupus — Thu, 29 May 2025 07:50:26 +0000

If you’ve ever felt your testicles slipping out of a chastity device mid-session or during normal life activities, you’re certainly not alone; in fact we have a whole article dedicated to how to avoid unwanted chastity cage slippages. For many men, especially those with a “high and tight” scrotum, this issue can become a frustrating hurdle. Thankfully, ball stretching for chastity has proven to be an effective and even pleasurable solution.

Balls stretching not only addresses the functional concerns of slippage and discomfort but also enhances the aesthetics and eroticism of the chastity experience.

TL;DR: Ball Stretching for Chastity

Ball stretching is the most effective solution for chastity wearers with a “high and tight” scrotum to prevent the cage from slipping. It improves security, comfort, and the overall erotic experience.

Prevents Slippage: Elongates the scrotum so the chastity cage ring stays securely in place.
Increases Comfort: Greatly reduces pinching and chafing, making long-term 24/7 wear possible.
Start Safely: Always warm up the skin first and begin with gentle manual stretches before using any device.
Choose the Right Device: Soft silicone stretchers are ideal for beginners, while steel weights are best for long-term, gradual results.

Why Chastity Slippage Happens: Understanding the “High and Tight” Scrotum

A “high and tight” scrotum is a common anatomical trait where the testicles rest closely against the body with less hanging skin. While perfectly normal, this can create challenges for chastity cage wearers. The cremaster muscle, which controls testicular elevation, naturally retracts the balls in response to arousal, cold, or physical activity. In a high and tight scrotum, this retraction can easily pull the testicles through the base ring, causing the entire device to slip.

For chastity lifestyle people like us, this can disrupt both the physical wear and the psychological dynamics of play. So how to solve this? Create more vertical space through balls stretching, a soft-core body modification that takes time an patience, but is also a thrilling and pleasurable journey.

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The Perfect Fix: How Ball Stretching Upgrades Your Chastity Game

This is where the magic happens. Ball stretching is all about gently and gradually adding a bit of length to your scrotal skin. That extra bit of hang makes a world of difference, creating just enough space to keep everything where it’s supposed to be. But the perks don’t stop at just security.

Key Benefits You’ll Actually Feel

Rock-Solid Security: Seriously, a longer scrotum is your best friend against unwanted escapes. It makes your device feel truly inescapable and really deepens that feeling of surrender.
Real Long-Term Comfort: By creating more space, you’re saying goodbye to pinching, chafing, and that sweaty irritation around the ring. This is what makes wearing your cage 24/7 not just possible, but actually comfortable.
Turns Up the Heat: The constant, gentle weight or pull is a fantastic sensation. It’s a subtle, erotic reminder that you’re locked and owned, which can make the whole experience way more intense. I wear a heavy cockring daily for this exact reason!
Looks Damn Good: Let’s be honest, a low-hanging scrotum has a certain aesthetic appeal. It adds to that hot submissive look and gives your Keyholder a lot more to admire and play with.

Getting Started: Your First Steps into Ball Stretching

Alright, ready to give it a go? The two most important words here are patience and consistency. This isn’t a race. Listen to your body and take it slow—your balls will thank you for it.

Get Warmed Up: Never start with cold, tight skin. A warm shower or a hot towel wrapped around your scrotum for a few minutes is the perfect way to start. It relaxes everything and makes the skin more pliable.
Lube Up: A bit of skin-safe moisturizer, coconut oil, or tea tree oil will do wonders. It keeps the skin supple and helps prevent any annoying irritation.
Go Hands-On First: Before you even think about buying gear, get used to the feeling. Gently pull your scrotum downwards with your hand, hold it for about 30-60 seconds, and repeat it a few times. Doing this daily gets your body ready for what’s next.

A little Neuro-Tagging Trick here

Our brain is neuro-plastic, which means it is capable of re-routing signals and adjusting to our will what we think / feel and resonate with exterior inputs. So, just like with pain that can be re-wired to mean “energy exchange” and bond with pleasure, balls stimulation is often going to be bothering or painful at first, unless you start rewiring that sensation as a new source of pleasure.

Choosing Your Gear: A Breakdown of Ball Stretchers

Once you’re comfortable with manual stretching, it’s time to graduate to some proper equipment. Just remember, you’re looking for a snug fit that doesn’t feel like it’s cutting off circulation.

Silicone Balls Stretchers: The Beginner's Best Friend

These are perfect for starting out. They’re soft, stretchy, and give a gentle but constant pull. Plus, they’re easy to clean and comfy enough to wear for long periods, even overnight. Trust me, you’ll want to shave first—pulled hairs are no fun for anyone.

Pros: Super comfortable, affordable, great for beginners.
Cons: A less intense stretch, can snag on hair.

Leather Stretchers: The Classic Choice

These have a great old-school look and feel. They often use buckles or snaps, so you can adjust the fit. Some are even weighted to up the intensity. They’re not always the best for all-day wear, but they’re great for dedicated stretching sessions.

Pros: Adjustable, awesome aesthetic.
Cons: Can be less comfortable for 24/7 wear, needs a bit of care.

Adjustable Stretchers: The Intermediate Step

This is your happy medium. Adjustable stretchers come in all sorts of materials—leather and rubber being the most common—and let you customize the intensity. Whether it’s through buckles, snaps, or stackable rings, you get to control the level of stretch, making them a great step up from basic silicone.

Pros: Great for gradual progression, lots of variety in style and material.
Cons: Can be bulkier and less comfortable for 24/7 wear.

Steel Weights: The Pro League

In my experience, this is what delivers the most serious, long-term results. These steel “donuts” come in different heights and weights, giving you that consistent tension you need for a real, gradual stretch. You find your size, lock it in with a screw, and let gravity do the work.

Pros: Incredibly effective, durable, and the feeling of the weight is a huge turn-on.
Cons: You need to get the sizing right, definitely not for day one.

Making It Part of Your Chastity Routine

So, how do you fit this into your chastity play? Easy. Think of it as a ritual. Before you lock up, do your warm-up and a few manual stretches. It makes putting the cage on much easier and more comfortable. If you want to keep the stretch going while locked, a soft silicone ring can often be worn right behind your cage’s base ring. It’s a great way to double down on security and sensation.

Play Safe: The Do’s and Don’ts of Ball Stretching

Look, this is fun, but safety has to be your top priority. Done right, it’s perfectly safe. Done wrong, you can get hurt. It’s that simple.

Your Body Knows Best: A good stretch feels like a satisfying pull. A sharp, shooting pain is your body screaming “NO!” Listen to it and take the device off immediately.
Keep an Eye on Things: Check your balls regularly. If they look bruised, purplish, or feel cold to the touch, your circulation is being cut off. Remove the stretcher right away.
This Isn’t a Race: Don’t just slap on the heaviest weight you can find. The goal is a gradual, consistent stretch over time. That’s how you get real, safe results.
Rest Days are Your Friend: Give your body time to recover. Taking breaks is smart, and it actually helps improve your long-term gains.

If something feels wrong or you’re just not sure, don’t be afraid to ask for help. There are kink-aware professionals and experienced community members who can guide you. Remember, ignoring warning signs can lead to serious injury, as even medical journals have noted. Play smart.

Don’t be afraid to seek help.

There are kink-aware medical professionals and experienced members of the BDSM community who can offer guidance, share experiences, and help you troubleshoot problems. We do this at Trans-Human Coaching, so feel free to drop a line if you need support. Whether you’re dealing with pain, unsure about your technique, or simply need reassurance, reaching out is always a wise move.

FAQ: Your Ball Stretching Questions Answered

Still have questions? No problem. Here are some of the most common ones I hear.

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Absolutely. A soft silicone stretcher is perfect for this. You can usually wear it right behind the base ring of your cage. It’s a great combo for extra security and a constant, gentle pull.

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It’s different for everyone. But if you’re consistent, you’ll probably feel more comfortable and notice a bit more hang within a few weeks. For those really noticeable, long-lasting results, you’re looking at a few months of dedicated stretching.

With consistent use of weights over a long period, the results can be pretty permanent. Your skin and tissues literally adapt and lengthen. But if you stop completely for a long time, you might find things tighten up a bit again.

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Are Chastity Cages Safe? It’s On You. Here’s Why

Austin Madore — Sun, 25 Aug 2024 23:00:41 +0000

Temporary Risks and Side Effects of Male Chastity

I’ll assume you’ve already read that not all chastity cages are the same, and choosing a high quality chastity cage makes an enormous difference in estimating possible side effects. In fact, a high quality chastity device that has been designed professionally and sized properly, will not cause any problem.

As long as you remember to have a good chastity hygiene drill and you are not stopping ejaculating for over a couple months, you should be good to go.

But, since the vast majority of newcomers prefer to start with cheap Amazon or eBay cock cages, let’s see what to expect.

Frequent Side Effect 1: Blue balls

No, they don’t actually turn that color unless your chastity ring is too tight – but repeatedly denied ejaculation (“edging”) can indeed make you feel a deep discomfort on your balls, due to what is technically known as epididymal hypertension. That’s doctorspeak for «the upper part of the testicles got engorged with blood as it normally happens during arousal, but since there was no orgasm they are still somewhat compressed. So you ache».

It is nothing serious: some masochists may even see it as a bonus (and some sadists may increase the discomfort just by frequent teasing to prolong it indefinitely), and it immediately goes away when you ejaculate anyway.

Frequent Side Effect 2: Leaking Unexpectedly

Those wet dreams you may have had as a teen were simply the release of the excess sperm and prespermatic fluid produced by your body. The quantity may decrease with age, but if you aren’t allowed to reach climax for a few days the principle remains the same: part of that stuff gets reabsorbed by the organism, but the rest must be expelled somehow. Wet spots are a side effect of prolonged chastity play, and pose no worry at all.

There’s also the occasional leak after sitting on the toilet to urinate. That depends on the chastity cage model you chose, as some do compress more than others, and if you’re cut or uncut also makes a difference.

Male Chastity and Prostate Cancer

There was a reasonably good study by the Harvard research that found that almost-daily orgasms decrease the risk for some types of prostate cancer by about 20%. No, it wasn’t conclusive, and most doctors agree that there probably is no real correlation. On the other hand, fewer ejaculations may contribute to prostate enlargement and inflammation. Which is why responsible dominants resort to milking their subs.

And by the way, to lighten up the mood a bit, here are the top 3 sub milking ideas from one of our keyholders.

Infrequent and Contextual Side Effects of Wearing Chastity Cages

Chastity cages are safe to use when you play responsibly. Most of the side effects (like blue balls and leaking) are to be expected as contextual effects of male chastity, and shouldn’t be taken seriously. There are however some less frequent issues with longer lockups (which is why you should be patient and learn how to work your way up to longer chastity lockups).

Infrequent Side Effect 1: Fertility issues

The jury is still out on the topic, but medical science leans on the side of caution, and warns that the lack of a normal sexual activity (read: regular ejaculations) carries a risk of reduced fertility.

That’s the first reason why smart and responsible keyholders will drain their submissive at least once every two months; while there’s no clinical evidence or correlation between male chastity and infertility, it’s sure that to keep good fertility levels, a male should be having a healthy ejaculation regime. Again, not going beyond 2 months is usually recommended.

Infrequent Side Effect 2: Loss of Erectile Strength

This is a really rough model, but think of the penis as a garden hose: the more you bend it, the more difficult it is for the water to flow and fill it. The same goes for the tissues and vessels inside your dick that become engorged with blood during erections: keep them constrained too long – and we’re talking many months without unlocking, here – and they will gradually lose their stretching ability, making erections less firm until they are gone. The effect mostly reverses with time and use.

Infrequent Side Effect 3: Atrophy (Chastity Shrinking)

By the same principle, a really extended time restrained in a chastity device may make the penis a bit shorter and thinner. Forget those dramatic “before and after” photos you have seen online: in the real world, the worst that may happen is a 10% decrease, again temporary. I guess you don’t want it to be a surprise, though.

We have an entire article on the topic here, so read on if you want to find out if and how a chastity cage might shrink your penis.

High Quality Chastity Devices vs Novelty Items

While some chastity cages are designed by brands notorious for their attention to detail and designing chastity cages intended for long term wear, many other devices or accessories are not designed for long term wear, and can cause easily lots of side effects.

Think as an example, at the difference between a standard anti pullout for your chastity cage, or a spiked pullout, inspired by Kali’s teeth bracelets. Clearly these two different designs are going to involve different levels of risk.

Here you can see the result of a ring that is too tight, and the purple color of the scrotum.

Wrapping It Up

Ultimately, chastity cages are safe in the measure of how responsible and experienced you or your keyholder are. Irresponsible usage of anything, can cause problems in the long run and even the short one.

So always play responsibly, and keep yourself informed on the blogs of experienced lifestyle participants like us; most of all, never be shy to ask questions or even drop an anonymous comment.

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Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

Austin Madore — Tue, 11 Jun 2024 13:18:41 +0000

I get asked often, Austin, does chastity cause erectile dysfunction? Can chastity cause issues down there? Rest assured, I’ve been a locked male for over ten years now, I have worked with hundreds of locked submissives, and I can safely say that chastity does not cause erectile dysfunction. Now, let’s deepen the topic.

What Is Erectile Dysfunction (ED)?

Erectile dysfunction (impotence) is the inability to get and maintain an erection firm enough for sex. Our bodies are complex machines with many factors affecting the same biological processes. Male sexual arousal is a complex process that involves the brain, hormones, emotions, nerves, muscles, and blood vessels. ED can result from a problem with any of these. Likewise, stress and mental health concerns can cause or worsen erectile dysfunction.

In their research about ED, The Mayo Clinic lists various risk factors that can contribute to erectile dysfunction, including:

Medical conditions, particularly diabetes or heart conditions
Tobacco use, which restricts blood flow to veins and arteries, can — over time — cause chronic health conditions that lead to erectile dysfunction
Being overweight, especially if you’re obese
Specific medical treatments, such as prostate surgery or radiation treatment for cancer
Injuries, particularly if they damage the nerves or arteries that control erections
Medications, including antidepressants, antihistamines, and medications to treat high blood pressure, pain, or prostate conditions
Psychological conditions, such as stress, anxiety, or depression
Drug and alcohol use, especially if you’re a long-term drug user or heavy drinker

Of course, there’s no mention of chastity cages, but neither is there any mention that consistent, controlled, compression during erection will cause ED. What needs to be avoided, is damage (especially to the nerves), and a high quality chastity cage like The Vice™ series, thanks to their modularity and perfect fit, cannot cause this sort of harm.

A Well Locked Cock, Without Shrinkage

Here is where different cage sizes come into play. If you want to keep every inch you currently have, you should choose a larger cage with, such as The Vice™ Standard. Or, if what you have between your legs makes other men jealous, perhaps The Vice™ Plus is for you. Choosing a larger cage will give your manhood the room it needs to grow when aroused, and prevent shrinkage. Besides having the option of choosing the size you want, The Vice™ is the only inescapable chastity cage in the world. You can see more about how chastity can cause shrinkage in the article Chastity Shrinkage: Myth or Reality.

Medical Opinions About Chastity and Erectile Dysfunction

The Washington City Paper approached Dr. Stephen H. King, MD, a urologist in Washington State, who said: “I’ve never had a patient ask me about using, or admit to using, a male chastity device, and I cannot find a single reference in the medical/urological literature.” So, there’s no scientific proof of chastity causing ED. That’s good news. Yet, Dr. King also decided to consult another doctor whose specialty is urology trauma, and his colleague hadn’t heard of any issues related to chastity devices. “Perhaps that speaks to their relative safety,” said Dr. King. “If they were damaging penises, surely we urologists would be the first ones to know.”

Long-Term Chastity User’s Opinions About Their Experience and ED.

Samantha Claire’s husband, on her Quora page, shares with us his experience. “I have been locked in chastity for nearly four years, and I have had no damage or side effects. That said, my device is removed for hygienic purposes once or twice a week (and immediately replaced). Periodically and at her sole discretion, it is also removed by my wife for milking, a handjob, or a ruined handjob.”

I can also vouch for that. My experience with chastity has been joyous, self-realizing, mind-opening, and life-changing. I would’ve not dedicated my life to building inescapable chastity devices if I couldn’t get hard anymore and my sex life had been ruined. Check out my article Everything You Need To Know About Male Chastity to gain a deeper understanding of this exciting, life-changing decision.

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Preventing Erectile Dysfunction While In Chastity

As mentioned previously, there are numerous factors that can cause ED. If you currently suffer from ED, talk to your doctor about it; together, you can find a solution. Just note that there is no medical evidence or scientific studies suggesting that wearing a chastity device is unhealthy or unsafe in the short or long term. There’s actually more information about the Health Benefits of Male Chastity than there are about the dangers.

Penile Shrinking and Male Chastity

Wait, what? Here you are concerned about losing the ability to get hard, and now I tell you that you might also shrivel your cock down? Do not panic. Yes, it is possible to shrink your cock if you want to. It’s your choice whether you choose to shrink your size down or not. It can also be entirely prevented if you prefer to maintain what you were born with.

If you want to learn more about this topic and get more profound knowledge on how not to shrink (or how to, you know you want to…) your penis while in chastity, check out this article on Male Chastity Shrinking: Myth and Reality.

Locking your cock unlocks a world of adventures, more intense orgasms, better communication with your partner, and new ways of experiencing pleasure. At Locked In Lust, we provide clear information on the topics you want to know about, all with more than a decade of experience in this lifestyle.

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Health Benefits of Male Chastity

Austin Madore — Fri, 29 Mar 2024 13:18:41 +0000

Health benefits of Male Chastity

The benefits of the chastity lifestyle extend as much as you allow them to. Having a penis cage can positively affect many areas of your life if you are willing to submit to it. Of course, your health is a holistic concept composed of much more than just your physical body. The main health benefits of male chastity are:

Relationship benefits
Sexual benefits
self-discipline benefits
personal growth

When you take into account your mental health as well, the benefits of male chastity increase tenfold.

About Male Chastity

Chastity has been around for thousands of years. In the Middle Ages, women could be forced to wear a chastity belt as a way to ensure that they would remain “pure”. Bad times.

Today, chastity, especially male chastity, is a consensual form of power exchange.

With the start of the #nofap, locktober, and #nonutnovember movements, men have been regaining control of their sexuality after having lost it to an addictive digital world of free and easily accessible porn. And what’s hotter than consciously giving up that newfound control?

Learn the history and fun of male chastity by checking out this article: Everything you need to know about Male Chastity.

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Relationship Benefits of Male Chastity

Your relationship with your partner, who will become your keyholder, can greatly improve. Lucas Fielding describes his chastity journey with his wife:

“Wearing a male chastity device feels wonderful. My wife owns my cock, and what this means for our purposes is that it’s understood that while she will orgasm whenever she pleases and I’ll do everything I can to please and satisfy her. While it can be frustrating to not be able to orgasm while wearing a chastity cage, I love the feeling of being constantly aroused as it’s a constant reminder that my cock belongs to my wife and it makes me think of her constantly. (…) Feeling the chastity cage around my cock feels more like I’m wearing a wedding ring than a bondage device. While it’s erotic, it also feels very intimate and makes me feel closer to my wife.”

Sexual benefits of Male Chastity

Being denied orgasm pushes your arousal to the limit. As men, we are not used to keeping it in; in many ways, we are still the hormonal teenager who locks himself in the bathroom to get rid of the morning hard-on. Not having this option, orgasms become ever more intense.

You are much more connected to the pleasure of your keyholder through your own pleasure. The more you please them, the more it pleases you. This develops into a new level of mental openness that opens the door to kinkier games such as bondage, prostate milking, orgasm teasing and denial, and butt play. I know your inner sissy is now drooling over having a butt plug when you go to work tomorrow morning.

In the Female Led Relationship (FLR) YouTube channel, Queen Marisa speaks of what she has experienced as the benefits of male chastity. You can check out her video here.

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“Happy wife, happy life” is more like “Locked man, happy wife, happy life”. Once I’ve learnt to overcome my fears, I’ve discovered a much better sexuality and complicity with my partner.

Self Discipline and Impulse Control: simplified.

Having your cock locked forces you to develop impulse control. Since you can no longer orgasm at will, your entire sexual energy is redirected into new areas: pleasing your keyholder and refocusing the frustration into other parts of your life.

I’ve personally taken running as a way to reduce the occasional sexual frustration. So, being caged has even helped me get fitter.

Personal Growth

Entering a permanent chastity lifestyle has pushed me to get to know myself better, has enhanced my understanding of what I like, removing a lot of the judgmental part. The top three aspects have been:

Understanding myself: Having my penis locked by my Domme has helped me understand my desires and needs better. I’ve been forced to confront my true sexual desires and deepen my understanding of what I truly want.
Communication: As a part of the relationship benefits, my communication with my keyholder has greatly improved. I have seen this translate into other areas of my life as well. I’m much more confident when I speak, and I have fewer taboos with every day that passes. This leads me to the last benefit:
Overcoming fears: Male chastity has helped me overcome my fears and insecurities. When locked in a chastity device, you are forced to confront their fears and insecurities surrounding your sexuality. This can lead to personal growth and increased self-confidence.

Sexual Health and Male Chastity

I’m sure you have gotten all excited reading all of this, who wouldn’t? If you still have some doubts, check out our blog for further articles. At LockedInLust we cover all topics that are chastity related, even if chastity cages are safe (which they are, but it’s on you to make them safe). So, what are you waiting for? If you’re ready to live what you have just read, check out these chastity cages and start your journey of pleasure in denial.

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Male Chastity Shrinking: Myth and Reality

Austin Madore — Sat, 11 Mar 2023 12:07:21 +0000

Today, I’ll talk about the reality behind male chastity shrinking: what is it? Is it reversible? Being a locked man who has lived the chastity lifestyle for over ten years, I know the difference between the metropolitan legends we always’ve been hearing in the male chastity world, and the actual penis shrinkage that can happen over time.

Does Chastity Shrink your Penis

It depends. You can avoid entirely this secondary effect, or you can work towards it; but now, male chastity in itself won’t cause your penis to shrink.

The main factors that influence penile shrinkage are:

Size of the chastity cage
Frequency of unlocks
Length of time unlocked
Amount of erection/playtime
Hormone therapy

Why is Chastity Associated with Shrinking

The shrinking of the cock is an optional secondary effect that can happen when you stay in a chastity cage for a long time, especially if it’s a small one. It’s up to you (and your keyholder) to decide whether you want to shrink it until you have a tiny clit with which your partner can play, making you look like the sissy you know you are, or if you want to keep your “manhood” intact.

About Male Chastity

Male Chastity involves the physical act of locking your penis in a cage and handing over control over your orgasms to a person that will hold the keys (A.K.A. keyholder). Whether you have someone in your life, as your wife or partner, who will choose when and how you will orgasm the next time, or you’re using a keyholding service that will keep that tiny key safe, male chastity is an incredible way to change your relationship with your sexuality and open yourself to more intense orgasms in the future. Here’s Everything You Need To Know About Male Chastity.

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How to effectively avoid Chastity Shrinking: 3 tips.

If you’re looking to experience chastity without fear of losing inches on your precious organ, then stick to at least two of the three guidelines below, and you should not experience any chastity shrinkage:

1 – Chastity Cage Size

You will want to ensure that you choose a chastity cage that allows for plenty of room to grow and get erect. A full erection isn’t necessary (it would hardly be chastity if it were), but you want to be able to achieve roughly 70% or more of an erection in your cage. This will allow for enough blood flow to your penis to ensure it maintains its stature. Any smaller, and you will start to restrict the blood flow and can start to introduce shrinking. If you’re wondering if chastity is safe, learn that it is up to you to make it safe.

A well locked cock, without shrinkage

Here is where different cage sizes come into play. If you want to keep every inch you currently have, you should choose a cage with a standard size, such as The Vice™ Standard. Or, if what you have between your legs makes other men jealous, perhaps The Vice™ Plus is for you. Besides having the option of choosing the size you want, TheVice™ is the only inescapable chastity cage in the world.

2 – UNLOCKING PERIODS AND EXERCISE

Stay on a semi-regular unlock schedule. One or two weekly unlocks to “stretch the muscles” should be more than enough. This will keep your body pumping enough blood to the region to maintain a full erection and prevent any decline in size or blood flow to the area. Also, it’s an excellent moment to thoroughly clean the cage and your cock.

3 – GET HARD, STAY HARD

When unlocked, introduce more extended periods of foreplay, with plenty of tease and, denial, and edging. Edging and teasing a denied unlocked cock will cause it to swell to its maximum capacity, ensuring an abundance of blood flow, which can not only help maintain an erection but even help increase the size of your beloved friend! Of course, an orgasm at the end will be entirely up to your keyholder. If you want some inspiration, here you can read about Chastity Cage Play and how to get the most out of it.

Chastity Shrinking and Other Techniques to shrink your penis

So, you’ve decided to shrink your manhood to show outside how you feel inside. Fantastic decision, you’re going to love being teased when your keyholder starts to play with what will be left of your cock (or should we just call it clit?). From my experience, you can start your chastity penis-shrinking journey with whichever cage size you want; you don’t need to reduce sizes slowly.

Tiny Chastity Cages to shrink your penis

Depending on what your aim is, you could start with a Mini or Micro cage, just think how cute your tiny cock will look all squeezed into that confined space. If you want to go all the way, and I get that you would, get yourself a Clitty or go full sissy with this pink Sissy Pussy Cage.

Wear a chastity cage size that completely suppresses your erections for a couple of weeks, with very few unlocks. Remember that it’s a process, little by little you’ll start to notice that the cage that seemed so small, now even has some space left. Whichever your goal is, entering the chastity lifestyle shouldn’t be something to be scared of; learn a bit more about How to Choose the right Chastity Cage and listen to your body when it speaks to you.

Reversing Chastity Shrinkage

Our bodies have an incredible resilience and ability to adapt, and our cocks are made of a spongy tissue (corpus cavernosum) that expands and contracts depending on the amount of blood flowing through it. So it’s a bit like losing weight, you won’t lose your precious inches overnight, nor will you regain them the moment you unlock your cock. It depends on your actions and how you handle it; just know that shrinkage can be undone. The two main myths that I have encountered myself with are:

Is Chastity Shrinkage permanent?

no, chastity shrinking is not permanent. There are science-backed procedures of penile rehabilitation that give men their inches back even after severe medical procedures. So don’t worry; staying locked won’t make you lose anything permanently, and it will be relatively easy to regain the lost measure.

Does Chastity cause ED (Erectile Disfunction)?

“What if I can’t perform after being caged for so long?”. No, chastity can’t cause ED. Chastity may, in some cases, change how you can achieve and maintain an erection. However, this is typically more psychological than physical; you feel you’re a sissy, so why should a sissy have an erect penis? With time and stimulation, you will go back to your “virile state”. It’s simply your body readjusting and recalibrating.

Tips and methods to regain the lost size

If you are looking to recover lost ground, you can try:

Take a Temporary hiatus from Chastity

This will allow for more natural erections to occur and the regular volume of blood flow to restore to the penis (especially during nighttime erections). This will help expand the blood vessels and capillaries in the penis, bringing it back to its former glory.

Regular Masturbation (edging)

NOTE: not regular cumming, but regular masturbation. Whether it’s you or your partner/keyholder, masturbating with tease and denial regularly will help bring about many fantastic erections, which will further increase the blood flow to the region and restore lost size. Try this a few times a day, and you will start to see results in as little as a week or two.

Penis Pumps

Using a penis pump is the tried-and-true method for penile rehabilitation and enhancement. Use a pump once or twice daily to help restore blood to the region, expand vessels and capillaries, and increase the length and girth of your hearty meat member. Be sure to study the safety material of a penis pump because there is such a thing as overinflated, and that outcome is not desirable (Google at your own risk).

So it’s your choice! What will it be: locked dick or pretty clit?

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How To Handle Uncomfortable Nightly Erections in Chastity

Austin Madore — Tue, 05 Jul 2022 15:47:07 +0000

This discomfort causes many men to remain unlocked overnight, or even give up on practicing chastity altogether. We are here to let you know that doesn’t have to be the case! Here are my vetted techniques you can use and keep in mind to help reduce the discomfort and pain with nightly erections, and get better quality sleep at night while staying locked in your chastity device.

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Emergency solution: go to the restroom

Whenever you are woken up by the pain or discomfort of your nightly erections, it can take minutes before you calm down enough to go back to sleep. Instead of waiting it out, try to go to the restroom to urinate.

Going to the restroom will essentially force your body to deflate the erection, allowing you to return to sleep much more quickly.

Lubricating the chastity device with lotion

The first and easiest step to make nightly erections in chastity significantly more comfortable is using lotion. We recommend an unscented moisturizing lotion for this (such as Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion), as it will alleviate the discomfort and make the penis more sensitive for play when it is unlocked.

Before you go to bed, take a small amount of lotion and rub it around the ring and scrotum – the areas which the ring could slide up and down at night, and where the friction causes pain. This will eliminate nearly all tugging and friction caused by the nightly erections pulling on the ball sack – which is usually the biggest culprit.

While you have the lotion out, squirt a small amount into the cage itself. Then use a cotton swab to spread it around the inside walls of the cage, trying to coat as much of the inside of the chastity tube as you can, as far back as possible. This will allow the penis to freely slide up and down the cage without friction, making your nightly erections in chastity much more bearable.

You only need to use enough lotion to provide lubrication. If there is any excess lotion when you are finished, gently wipe it away with a towel. This solution will often provide you with immediate relief.

Double check your Chastity Device is the right size

Each person’s anatomy and nightly erection is different. Because of this, our bodies will all have their own “preference” of cage size. As also explained in our dedicated article on how to choose the right chastity cage, many men will find that having a smaller cage that doesn’t allow you to get any form of an erection will yield the best sleep; while others will find it more comfortable having the most amount of room to grow.

If you own more than one cage size, try wearing each size for a few nights and monitor the quality of sleep you get from it.

Some chastity devices, such as The Vice, offer interchangeable cages without the need for purchasing an entirely new device each time.

Better Nightly Erections in Chastity with The Vice

I have designed The Vice both because I wanted to create a really inescapable chastity cage, and also because I couldn’t bear the pain cause by other popular alternatives. That’s why every chastity device of The Vice family, is fully customizable from the rings, to the spacers, to the cage and beyond.

Scrotum stretching with balls stretchers or balls weights

The last tip for helping out with nightly erections is stretching out your scrotum, or ball sack. Nightly erections can be quite uncomfortable due to the erection pushing the cage away from your body, and tugging on the scrotum.

Over time, the scrotum will start to stretch out as a consequence of this constant tugging, allowing you a fuller erection with little to no tugging on the scrotum. This is one of the body adaptations that makes chastity become easier with time.

Instead of waiting for the body to stretch the scrotum over weeks of chastity play, you can accelerate the progress using a ball stretcher. Simply fasten the ball stretcher around your scrotum, and wear it for an hour or so at a time.

Rest assured, this process for most is not as uncomfortable as it may sound. Depending on the size of the stretcher, you may not experience any discomfort at all!

This will progressively stretch out the scrotum more effectively and in less time than a chastity device. Resulting in you having a more enjoyable chastity experience in a shorter amount of time!

It gets easier, with time

The first few nights locked in chastity can be difficult. You have added a contraption to your genitals that nature never intended to be there. Luckily for us, our bodies are adaptive to new environments and conditions, and it will adapt to this new circumstance as well.

After about a week in chastity, you will begin to notice the nightly wake up calls happen less and less frequently than before. This is your body adapting to its new environment. Your body will continue to adapt as the nights tick away, becoming easier and less frequent, until you achieve a full uninterrupted night of sleep!

In addition, once your body reaches this full adaptation, it remembers it for future lockups. Meaning you will find uninterrupted sleep while locked up in shorter periods of time for future chastity play.

It is important here to try and maintain the same cage while your body adapts. Drastic changes to your cage size at this stage can lead to restless sleep again.

After the first week in chastity, you should start to notice the wake up calls from your nightly erections may become less frequent. This is your body adapting to its new environment.

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