Locktober is here, and for those in the chastity community, it’s the perfect time to dive into 31 days of fun, teasing, and self-control. Whether you’re a seasoned Dom or a sub looking to push your limits, this guide will provide exciting Locktober ideas, challenges, and tasks to make this year’s experience unforgettable.
From creative games to strict Locktober rules, there’s something for every dynamic to enjoy during this tantalizing month.
post by: Austin Madore
For Doms: Make It Fun and Frustrating
As a Dom, Locktober is an opportunity to exercise your control over your sub’s pleasure. Here are some Locktober challenges and tasks you can set to keep things spicy and intense throughout the month.
1. Daily Teasing Routine
One of the most effective ways to keep your sub on edge during Locktober is through consistent, deliberate teasing. Start each day with a specific form of teasing, such as:
- Morning Messages: Send them an arousing text, photo, or audio message reminding them of their locked status.
- Edging Sessions: Plan short sessions where you bring them to the brink of orgasm but stop just before.
- Sensory Teasing: Incorporate elements like ice, feathers, or vibration to drive them wild without unlocking the device.
Locktober idea: You can create a weekly schedule where different methods of teasing are used on specific days, keeping your sub guessing what’s next.
2. Reward Systems and Point-Based Games
Turn Locktober tasks into a game by creating a point-based system. Your sub can earn or lose points based on their behavior and completion of challenges. For example:
- Earn Points: Completing chores, following instructions, and resisting temptations.
- Lose Points: Complaining, begging for release, or disobeying orders.
At the end of the week, points can be tallied, and rewards or punishments can be dished out depending on how well your sub performed. Rewards could be short breaks from the device or permission for an orgasm at the end of Locktober. Punishments could range from extended lock times to additional denial periods.
3. Control Over Daily Life
During Locktober, take your control to the next level by assigning your sub various daily tasks, such as:
- Wearing Remote-Controlled Devices: Use vibrating plugs or similar devices you can control from afar.
- Incorporating Power Exchange: Have your sub wear an object of your choosing every day as a reminder of their submissive role, such as a collar or a hidden chastity key.
- Making your sub wear a hidden object or symbol daily to remind them of their status.
- Use apps like Chaster, which allow you to remotely control the lock timer or even set random unlock periods to keep them on edge Chaster
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For Subs: Embrace the Frustration and Challenge
As a sub, Locktober is the perfect opportunity to explore your limits and dedication to submission. Here are some Locktober ideas to help you stay engaged, aroused, and fully immersed in the challenge.
1. Self-Assigned Tasks
If you’re a self-locking participant, creating daily tasks for yourself can make the experience more rewarding. Here are some fun Locktober tasks to try:
- Write a Daily Journal: Reflect on your experience of being locked each day. Write about the frustrations, excitement, and mental challenges you face as the month progresses. If you’re not too shy, journal directly on social media! Communities like X, Fetlife and Reddit are a great place where to find friends and share your exciting journey.
- Physical Fitness Challenge: Set up a workout routine where every completed workout equals a reward (like a short unlock). This helps maintain both your physical and mental discipline.
- Daily Edging: Push your limits by bringing yourself to the edge without unlocking the device. This task is not just about control but also about building resilience and learning to enjoy the denial.
- Daily exercise: Commit to physical fitness alongside your mental challenge to make the built up pressure more manageable. Each workout can serve as a “release” (figuratively!) where you relieve stress and channel sexual frustration into physical effort.
2. Partner-Led Teasing Ideas
If you have a Dom, let them take full control of your Locktober challenges. Some fun ideas include:
- Surprise Check-ins: Your Dom can assign random moments throughout the day for you to check in with them, reporting on your arousal level or discomfort while locked. This keeps the dynamic alive even when you’re apart.
- Punishment Games: Agree on a set of rules for the month, and every infraction comes with a punishment. For example, failing a challenge could result in extra days being added to your lock time or extra teasing from your Dom without any hope of release.
3. Challenge Your Willpower
As a sub, challenging your own willpower is essential for Locktober. Here’s how to make it more exciting:
- Lock and Freeze: Store your key in a block of ice or another hard-to-access place so that unlocking the device becomes an ordeal itself. This reinforces the sense of denial and forces you to embrace your locked state.
- Avoiding Temptation: Ban yourself from watching adult content or engaging in sexual activity that isn’t directly controlled by your Dom. This self-imposed restraint helps deepen your sense of submission.
Discover our 2024 Locktober Game
Overview:
“Unlock the Secret” is a creative, interactive game that can last for several days or the entire duration of Locktober. It is a scavenger hunt-style game where the sub must solve clues, complete tasks, and unlock mysteries to earn points toward temporary unlocks or rewards. The twist? Each clue leads to more challenging tasks, and the final “key” may only unlock one small reward—while the main chastity device remains securely locked.
Objective:
The sub must gather clues or “keys” by completing daily challenges set by the Dom, but they don’t know which key will lead to temporary relief or simply tease them further.
Fun Locktober Games and Challenges for Both Doms and Subs
Want to take things up a notch? Here are some games you can both enjoy during Locktober:
1. “Keyholder’s Choice” Game
Each week, the sub presents the keyholder with a choice of two different punishments or rewards. The keyholder can select which one they’ll administer, giving them complete control over the outcome. This game creates an exciting dynamic where the sub anticipates which option will be chosen.
2. Daily Quiz Challenge
The Dom prepares a daily quiz for the sub, with every correct answer earning a small reward, and every wrong answer leading to a punishment or an extra day in chastity. The quiz could range from questions about the dynamic to fun, kinky trivia, keeping the sub on their toes throughout the month.
3. Mystery Lock Time
If you’re up for more unpredictability, use a digital timer or app that randomizes the lock duration. Neither Dom nor sub knows when the device will unlock, which adds suspense and heightens the overall thrill of Locktober.
Maintaining Health and Safety During Locktober
While it’s fun to push limits, safety and health should always come first during Locktober and chastity play in general. Make sure you maintain regular cleaning of your device and pay attention to any discomfort or pain. Being locked in chastity is meant to be challenging but should never cause harm.
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