How To Handle Uncomfortable Nightly Erections in Chastity

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  • Published on: July 5, 2022
  • Last Updated: July 12, 2024
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  • Published on: July 5, 2022
  • Last Updated: July 12, 2024

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One of the most common complaints we hear about are how uncomfortable nightly erections in chastity can be. If you have ever worn a chastity device overnight, you have probably experienced the uncomfortable, even painful tugging caused from nightly erections.

This discomfort causes many men to remain unlocked overnight, or even give up on practicing chastity altogether. We are here to let you know that doesn’t have to be the case! Here are my vetted techniques you can use and keep in mind to help reduce the discomfort and pain with nightly erections, and get better quality sleep at night while staying locked in your chastity device.

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Posted by: Austin Madore
Posted by: Austin Madore
Austin Madore is the CEO and founder of Locked in Lust®, and creator of the only patented anti pullout system for their bespoke original chastity cage, The Vice™. He is in the Male Chastity lifestyle since over 20 years, and in the industry since 2014.

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Emergency solution: go to the restroom

Whenever you are woken up by the pain or discomfort of your nightly erections, it can take minutes before you calm down enough to go back to sleep. Instead of waiting it out, try to go to the restroom to urinate.

Going to the restroom will essentially force your body to deflate the erection, allowing you to return to sleep much more quickly.

chastity lotion being applied on human finger

Lubricating the chastity device with lotion

The first and easiest step to make nightly erections in chastity significantly more comfortable is using lotion. We recommend an unscented moisturizing lotion for this (such as Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion), as it will alleviate the discomfort and make the penis more sensitive for play when it is unlocked.

Before you go to bed, take a small amount of lotion and rub it around the ring and scrotum – the areas which the ring could slide up and down at night, and where the friction causes pain. This will eliminate nearly all tugging and friction caused by the nightly erections pulling on the ball sack – which is usually the biggest culprit.

While you have the lotion out, squirt a small amount into the cage itself. Then use a cotton swab to spread it around the inside walls of the cage, trying to coat as much of the inside of the chastity tube as you can, as far back as possible. This will allow the penis to freely slide up and down the cage without friction, making your nightly erections in chastity much more bearable.

You only need to use enough lotion to provide lubrication. If there is any excess lotion when you are finished, gently wipe it away with a towel. This solution will often provide you with immediate relief.

it's important to have the right chastity cage size to avoid painful chastity erections at night

Double check your Chastity Device is the right size

Each person’s anatomy and nightly erection is different. Because of this, our bodies will all have their own “preference” of cage size. As also explained in our dedicated article on how to choose the right chastity cage, many men will find that having a smaller cage that doesn’t allow you to get any form of an erection will yield the best sleep; while others will find it more comfortable having the most amount of room to grow.

If you own more than one cage size, try wearing each size for a few nights and monitor the quality of sleep you get from it.

Some chastity devices, such as The Vice, offer interchangeable cages without the need for purchasing an entirely new device each time.

The Vice Mini v2 by locked in lust, a policarbonate long term chastity cage, in black

Better Nightly Erections in Chastity with The Vice

I have designed The Vice both because I wanted to create a really inescapable chastity cage, and also because I couldn’t bear the pain cause by other popular alternatives. That’s why every chastity device of The Vice family, is fully customizable from the rings, to the spacers, to the cage and beyond.

Scrotum stretching with balls stretchers or balls weights

The last tip for helping out with nightly erections is stretching out your scrotum, or ball sack. Nightly erections can be quite uncomfortable due to the erection pushing the cage away from your body, and tugging on the scrotum.

Over time, the scrotum will start to stretch out as a consequence of this constant tugging, allowing you a fuller erection with little to no tugging on the scrotum. This is one of the body adaptations that makes chastity become easier with time.

Instead of waiting for the body to stretch the scrotum over weeks of chastity play, you can accelerate the progress using a ball stretcher. Simply fasten the ball stretcher around your scrotum, and wear it for an hour or so at a time.

Rest assured, this process for most is not as uncomfortable as it may sound. Depending on the size of the stretcher, you may not experience any discomfort at all!

This will progressively stretch out the scrotum more effectively and in less time than a chastity device. Resulting in you having a more enjoyable chastity experience in a shorter amount of time!

a steel balls stretcher that can help in easing the pain of erections in chastity

It gets easier, with time

The first few nights locked in chastity can be difficult. You have added a contraption to your genitals that nature never intended to be there. Luckily for us, our bodies are adaptive to new environments and conditions, and it will adapt to this new circumstance as well.

After about a week in chastity, you will begin to notice the nightly wake up calls happen less and less frequently than before. This is your body adapting to its new environment. Your body will continue to adapt as the nights tick away, becoming easier and less frequent, until you achieve a full uninterrupted night of sleep!

In addition, once your body reaches this full adaptation, it remembers it for future lockups. Meaning you will find uninterrupted sleep while locked up in shorter periods of time for future chastity play.

It is important here to try and maintain the same cage while your body adapts. Drastic changes to your cage size at this stage can lead to restless sleep again.

After the first week in chastity, you should start to notice the wake up calls from your nightly erections may become less frequent. This is your body adapting to its new environment.

About the Author

Austin Madore
Austin Madore
Austin Madore is the CEO and founder of Locked in Lust®, and creator of the only patented anti pullout system for their bespoke original chastity cage, The Vice™. He is in the Male Chastity lifestyle since over 20 years, and in the industry since 2014.
Tags: erections in chastity / nightly erections / pain / painful erections
4 Comments
  1. Ronald

    I am in permanent chastity in my pussy free female led marriage. I am not allowed in my hotwifes pussy or asshole ever again. I want my hotwife full and satisfied as a woman and I have never given her a orgasm with mg cock inside her mouth, asshole or pussy. I relieve my full balls by using my boyfriend a 12 inch very thick dildo with a massive head and it’s black just like my hotwifes boyfriends. She has me ride it either on the wall or attached to the jacuzzi. I can go balls deep now I am accustom to her boyfriends fucking me regularly now for my pussy free sex life . When she travels which is alot for work. I replace her so her hung BBC need there precious balls drained and I am the warm holes they use . Barebacking me is beautiful in my pink thigh highs, garter and my lipstick and big heavy breasts I wear in my bra . I love them orgaming in me while I am in chastity and it’s my job draining them all completely until she comes back . Chastity is a perfect marriage for us and my pussy free sex life now.

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    • Damon

      I am jelly of you! I hope some day my wife and I will get there. I was a lot just to have her agree to my begging her to do this. I encourage her to fantasize about other guys in hopes she will at tsome point want to try that. I have purposely become a prejack so she never gets satisfied from me and has to depend on toys to cum and eventually other men. One day at a time… Hoping to be a sissy slut cock sucker for her and her bulls.

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  2. Michelle

    Hi, love reading your amazing and enticing situation.
    What cage are you currently wearing? Would love to see your sexy dressing and taking care of her boys. How did your wife take you into this alluring and erotic situation? Thanks so much as I would wish this was my current situation although I do dress up for the boys. Thanks. Michelle

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  3. Dave

    just had to say hi, I’m in self chastity & seeking a KeyHolder
    ☺️☺️🔐

    Reply
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