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You’ve been enjoying being caged so much that you’re ready for the next step? So, you’ve finally decided to start your long term chastity journey, kudos!
I’m sure you have plenty of questions:
- Is it safe?
- What is the best chastity cage?
- What are the possible effects of long term male chastity?
- How do I get to it?
- Am I ready to wear a long term chastity cage?
The quick answer is: yes, you are ready. In this article I’ll go over the questions you might have so you can prepare yourself for what is going to be the ride of your life. As a long term caged male (I’ve been at it for over 10 years), I’m here to ease the process. Keep reading for all the info!
Guest post by: Austin Madore
Long term chastity: setting expectations
Wearing a chastity device for long, very long, periods of time can be both exciting and scary at the same time. First thing, first, if you’re new to this lifestyle, check out my Chastity Cage Guide to get you up to speed. If you’ve already been at it for a while and you’re ready to up your game, keep going.
“Long term chastity” is the level up of male chastity. You’ve been locked for sessions, for a couple of days, maybe even a couple of weeks and your body, mind and soul are craving more. I get you, it’s a lifestyle that can become addicting. It’s normal that what we read online and see in adult websites triggers our imagination. I remember thinking at the beginning that I wanted to lock my cage and throw the key into the Apalachicola River. It’s important to note the difference between Fantasy and Reality. Once you’ve set your intention and expectations right, you’re all set to have that cock cage locked for good. So exciting!
Prepping for long term chastity
There are a few steps you should follow to start this journey fully prepared:
Choose the right duration for Long Term Chastity
Be realistic. It’s best to choose a length of time that will be challenging, but not over the top. So if your longest lockup to date is 2 weeks, trying to take on a 1 year lockup is going to be wildly difficult; instead, try shooting for 1-2 months and work up from there.
Set up comfortable consent rules
If you are playing with a partner, it’s best practice to discuss ground rules beforehand. Important topics are:
- A safeword – in case you need to get out in an emergency
- Emergency Key(s) – where are they and what consists an emergency.
- Doctor visits/Travel/Holiday/Vacations
- Unlock & Orgasm schedule
A popular way to write these items out is in the form of a chastity contract, where all important topics and expectations are detailed, and then signed by both parties. In Her blog, Mistress Ezada has drafted an example of a chastity contract that you can use as a source of inspiration.
Choose the right chastity cage
This step is crucial to ensuring an enjoyable long-term lockup. Be sure you choose a device that you have comfortably worn for at least two weeks, ideally without unlocking. We have an article by Master Lupus on how to choose the best chastity cage for long term chastity, here.
Teasing & Orgasms
If you choose to have a monthly unlock/orgasm schedule, your body will forget what it feels like, making the journey easier. If you prefer to have a more difficult and frustrating experience, then be sure to include regular edging and pack it full of tease & denial!
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Effects of long term chastity
Chastity is a holistic experience that cover your body, your mind and your soul. Physical and psychological effects start to appear once weeks start to pass and it sinks in that there are many more weeks to come. Let’s talk about some of them.
Steve, who has been locked for over 9 years by his wife, shares of his forum on Quora that all the negative effects he once felt, are gone. He talks about how he has redirected his sexual energy into other areas of his life and how his mental state is better and the anxiety/depression he used to suffer from has lessened greatly. He also mentions the wonders it has done for his marriage, and I can vouch for that.
Physical considerations of prolonged chastity device use
The first impact will come from your body. Physically having a cage around your cock will cause all sort of unexpected surprises. You might find yourself in a meeting or in the plane and, when moving your legs, you’ll feel the structure against your tights which can cause you to get all excited and distracted from what you’re doing. Of course, not all physical sensations are pleasurable, at the beginning.
Your skin will need to adapt to the constant friction generated from the cage. It might get dry and even irritate if you don’t moisturize. I find that a fingertip of Albolene under the balls before going to bed works wonders. Be careful not to over moisturize, you don’t want a midnight slip-off of your cage. To be honest, one of the initial “problems” I had has become one of my biggest pleasure. I call it the chastity scratch, and it is just what it sounds like. Waking up and scratching the sensitive skin around the ring gives me a pain/pleasure ratio that is just fantastic.
Hygiene becomes crucial during long term male chastity. This is to prevent odors and even a possible UTI. Check out out article on How to Maintain Chastity Cage Hygiene.
I’m also sure you’ve read and heard about the possible negative side effects of long term wear. “Being locked for months will cause erectile dysfunction (ED)! Your penis will shrivel up and reduce to nothing!…” I’ve heard them all and I’m here to give you some peace. No, long term chastity will not cause ED, otherwise I would not be able to please my keyholder anymore and that’s something that neither of us want. Check out a more detailed explanation in my article Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
Psychological Impact of Extended Chastity
The second, and perhaps most impactful way that long term chastity will impact your life will be through your psyche. Now, of course there’s a certain level of emotional stress and frustration that comes with not being able to touch your cock. But that’s expected, we know it’s coming and I believe is a part of the experience. When feeling frustrated have a chat with your keyholder about it, they might even like to hear that the device is putting you in a rough spot.
Something that long term chastity will give you is a deeper connection with your keyholder. Many marriages I know have rekindled the flame of their relationship through chastity. Read real stories about this in my article Chastity Relationship Benefits: Obedience, Libido & Complicity.
I will always be a huge advocate of male chastity. Not only because I manufacture high quality cages for men all over the world but also because of the changes I have seen in me, my life and my relationship. I’ve lived through it all and I’ve compiled some of my experience of the Benefits of Chastity here.
I will always be a huge advocate of male chastity. Not only because I manufacture high quality cages for men all over the world but also because of the changes I have seen in me, my life and my relationship.
My most important tip for long term chastity usage
If there’s one thing that you keep from this article, let it be this: choose your cage carefully. Remember that your cage will be on you, 24/7, for a long time (hopefully) so it’s better to go the extra mile and choose for yourself a cage that is of the highest quality. Now, I know that money doesn’t grow on trees but, if we are willing to invest on a high-end phone and computer for work, on a high quality mattress for our backs and on vacations for our mental wellbeing, we can make an effort to get something that we know will make this experience what it should be: a life changing adventure that will bring out sides of you you never thought possible.
I have different cages depending on the occasion. For my day-to-day lock-ups, I’m usually with TheVice due to its versatility, lightweight and comfort. For sessions and play with my keyholder, my favorite one is the Steel Down Boy because it’s designed to allow painful erections due to its curved steel chastity cage. My keyholder’s havorite for play has to be the Chainmail. She loves the access it gives her to stimulate and edge me till the very end without having to unlock anything.
Do your research, take your time, don’t buy off Temu or Amazon chastity cages and have a safe and enjoyable long-term lockup!
If you have any other tips or questions for long-term lockups, please email me at Austin@lockedinlust.com, it will be great to hear from you.
What is long term chastity, and how does it differ from short-term chastity?
Long term chastity refers to the practice of wearing a chastity device for an extended period, often for weeks, months, or even indefinitely. Unlike short-term chastity, which might be used for brief periods of a few hours or days, long-term chastity involves deeper mental and emotional commitment. It can be part of a consensual power exchange dynamic, often within BDSM relationships, where one partner (the keyholder) controls the other’s sexual release.
What are the benefits of practicing long term chastity?
For many people, long term chastity brings a heightened sense of intimacy and trust between partners. It can create deeper emotional bonds, build anticipation, and enhance sexual experiences when release finally occurs. Many enjoy the psychological aspects, such as focusing on non-sexual affection, submission, or control dynamics. It can also serve as a tool for exploring personal discipline and self-control.
Is long term chastity safe, and are there any risks?
When practiced responsibly, long term chastity can be safe. It’s important to choose a well-fitted chastity device, made from body-safe materials, to avoid issues like discomfort, irritation, or hygiene problems. Regular communication between partners is essential to ensure safety, particularly regarding any potential health concerns, such as circulation problems or prolonged discomfort. Keyholders should allow for periodic cleaning and check-ins to prevent infection or injury.
How do you maintain hygiene while in long term chastity?
Maintaining proper hygiene is crucial in long term chastity. Regular cleaning of both the device and the genitals should be done to prevent infections or odor. Most devices are designed to allow for water to flow through, so daily rinsing in the shower is recommended. Some individuals may remove the device periodically for a thorough cleaning before being locked back up. Using body-safe lubricants can also reduce friction and discomfort, further supporting hygiene.
What role does communication play in long term chastity relationships?
Can long term chastity affect mental or emotional health?
For many, long term chastity enhances emotional connection and provides a sense of fulfillment. However, it can also be mentally challenging, as it often involves enduring frustration, dependency, and control. It's essential that both partners maintain open dialogue to address any negative emotions or concerns. In some cases, people may find that long term chastity promotes self-reflection, discipline, or a greater focus on non-sexual aspects of their relationship.
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