As a bisexual BDSM Master, I love a good sissy; always been this way.
To me, sissification is the only feminization fetish that works, as it has to do with identity more than mere looks. Being a sissy doesn’t just mean being a crossdresser. Sissies out there understand this; it’s a journey to a hyper polarized ideal of feminization, where what a sissy wears, how she chooses her make up, her ways of doing things, and how she wants to treat her man (or be treated..) have strong importance.
That’s why a sissy in chastity has very specific needs. I am Master Lupus, and I am happy to share my favorite clit locks for sissies in chastity.
Guest post by: Master Lupus
My Favorite Cock Cages For Sissies
Depending if your sissy is an experienced one or a newcomer girl to the lifestyle, you should remember two general rules.
- Learning how to choose the right chastity cage is paramount, sissy or not sissy.
- Not every sissy is a masochist or a slave, at all. Therefore, depending on her personality, the choice of the chastity cage is, in some cases, best to be shared with your sissy.
Featured Products
The Vice Mini v2
Modular Small Inescapable Pink Chastity Cage
The Vice Mini v2 is Locked in Lust’s best seller, because it’s one of the most comfortable, secure, and customizable small chastity cages on the market. With its proprietary patented anti-pullout system, and the premium sissy chastity straps, this has become my very favorite clit lock.
PROS
- It’s The Vice™. A guarantee when it comes to quality.
- Very lightweight and durable
- Customizable fit with many adjustment levels
- The only inescapable chastity device
CONS
- It will still show the shape of a cocklet between your sissy’s legs, as it’s not a negative chastity cage
The Silicone Pussy Cage
Removing the penis, having a nice pussy instead
I got to try this one on one of my subs who was new to sissification, and we both loved it. For me it’s both visual and sensory pleasure of feeling a lifelike small puckering vagina when I reach down to touch her. For her, it’s a complete thrill to know she has a pussy to offer to her man. Just great, and a complete mindfuck.
PROS
- Very innovative and fun
- Comes with an inversion attachment!
- The pussy is realistic and soft
- Design feels sturdy and durable
- Anatomical oval chastity ring is very comfortable
CONS
- It is not designed for bathroom usage
- Less customizable
- I’m not a fan of barrel locks
The Vice Clitty
Micro Pink Chastity Cage
The Vice Clitty is the sissy cage version of The Vice™ series, completely hiding and tucking away the penis. While this cage can’t work with Locked in Lust’s proprietary patented anti pullout system, this makes for a much more effective clit lock in terms of look and feel.
PROS
- Again, it’s The Vice™. A guarantee when it comes to quality.
- Even more lightweight
- Very short, very small, very sissy.
CONS
- Not compatible with the anti-pullouts.
Why We Lock Up a Sissy in Chastity
There are several reasons why a dominant may choose to lock up a sissy in chastity. Each dominant has their specific motivations, but a few common reasons include:
- Stripping of Manhood: Locking up a sissy reinforces that there is only one man in the relationship. It eliminates the expectation of male pleasure, ensuring the sissy fully enjoys and embrace her submissive role.
- Increased Sexual Behavior: Sissies often crave attention and sexual excitement. By keeping them in chastity, their sexual frustration builds, pushing them to step out of their comfort zones and engage more in their sissy duties.
- Obedience Training: Chastity serves as a test of obedience. If a sissy resists the idea of being locked up, it reveals potential disobedience. Compliance indicates their willingness to submit fully.
- Insurance: Chastity acts as “insurance” for some dominants. It ensures the sissy remains focused and invested in the relationship, preventing them from seeking quick gratification elsewhere.
Personally, I find that putting a sissy in chastity training is a gift, and not a way to diminish her pleasure to satisfy my ego; I firmly believe in respect when it comes to BDSM and Kink, and if a person tells me they want to be treated as a real girl, I’ll treat her as a real girl. Their penis ceases to exist, forever, in my mind.
Hence, a small pink chastity cage, or an inverted chastity cage, is to me a way to prize their identity with validation and participation, making that useless penis disappear for good.
Sissy Clit Lock: How To Get It Right
First of all, you should head over to our detailed article on how to choose the right chastity cage for you. Taking care of the practical aspects like measurements, sizes, fitting and materials, is paramount.
Psychological aspects
Sissy chastity training involves a series of practices designed to condition the sissy to accept and embrace their role in chastity. This can include wearing the cage for extended periods, performing tasks while locked, and receiving rewards or punishments based on their behavior.
Benefits of Chastity Training
- Enhanced Submission: Chastity training deepens the sissy’s submissive mindset.
- Behavioral Conditioning: Consistent wear reinforces the sissy’s obedience and dedication.
- Sexual Control: The dominant maintains control over the sissy’s sexual pleasure, ensuring it aligns with their rules and desires.
3 Important Steps In Sissy Chastity Training
Gradual Introduction
Start with short periods of wear and gradually increase the duration as the sissy becomes more accustomed to the cage.
Routine Checks
Regularly check the fit and comfort of the cage to avoid any health issues or discomfort.
Incorporating Tasks
Assign tasks and duties to the sissy while they are in chastity to reinforce their submissive role and keep them focused.
The Psychological Aspects Of Sissy Chastity
Mental Conditioning
Chastity has a profound psychological impact on the sissy. It reinforces their submissive identity and deepens their dependence on their dominant for sexual pleasure.
Emotional Bonding
The act of locking and controlling a sissy’s sexuality strengthens the emotional bond between the sissy and their dominant, fostering trust and intimacy.
Dealing with Challenges
Sissy chastity can present challenges, such as physical discomfort or mental resistance. It’s essential to address these issues with patience and understanding, ensuring the sissy feels supported and cared for.
What does “sissy” mean in the context of kink?
What is the purpose of putting a sissy in chastity?
The purpose is to control the sissy's sexual urges, reinforce their submissive role, and ensure their focus remains on pleasing their dominant.
Can sissy cages be worn long-term?
Yes, many sissy cages are designed for long-term wear. However, it's important to ensure proper hygiene and routine checks to avoid any issues.
What are the psychological effects of sissy chastity?
Sissy chastity can reinforce submissive behavior, deepen emotional bonds with the dominant, and provide a sense of security and control.
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