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Not to toot my own horn, but with more than ten years of experience as a locked man and having developed and manufactured my own chastity cage, I have been and done everywhere and everything when it comes to chastity cage orgasms.
Below, I’d like to share some personal chastity cage stories, what I have done, and how I have lived it so you can take full advantage and get the most out of chastity cage play.
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What Is Chastity Cage Play?
Participating in male chastity has different facets. There are obviously the physical and psychological effects of having your cock locked; being unable to satisfy your sexual desires and jerking off every time you get a hard-on is one side of it.
Another very interesting (and fun) part of it is the complicity that it creates with your keyholder and them playing with your locked penis. New sexual experiences open up, from inverted chastity cages to permanent chastity, participating as a couple in events such as Locktober, feeling the arousal build up through orgasm denial or the yummy frustration derived from a ruined orgasm. Cage play is as diverse as penis cages and can go as deep as your Dom/me wants if you relinquish control.
Of course, chastity cage play is not exclusive to keyholders. Within self-chastity, you can also play plenty of fun games with yourself. If you have decided to use a keyholding service, you can get the full feeling of, as my Mistress says, being locked and being fucked. Anal and prostatic stimulation are a big part of cage play, if you have never done it, you’re in for a treat! However, it is essential to keep safety in mind, always use trusted keyholding services and don’t be afraid to ask for references.
Chastity Training
Chastity training is basically being trained to accept the chastity device, and to have penile pleasure and orgasms only when your Dominant says so.
On Quora, Steve describes its training as: “ Just an hour ago I gave my wife two orgasms and I just got teased while locked in a cock cage. So it is basically training the male to only orgasm when the female wants him too and to learn to live with delayed gratification. Much like Tantric sex where you have lots of sex but put off the orgasm. The only difference is that orgasm are for my wife’s pleasure only, not mine.”
Plenty of aspects come hand in hand with chastity cage training. Discipline, devotion, self control, self regulation, dealing with frustration, learning to enjoy new aspects of your sexuality are just a few of the abilities chastity training can give you. Just like with everything in life, you will face some chastity cage challenges that you’ll have to work through. Nothing you won’t be able to manage, don’t worry.
You might be a sissy, but you’re a strong one, and you’ll rise above every new challenge with your head up high and your pink Sissy Pussy Cage well locked. You might even face challenges imposed by your keyholder where you’ll do things you never thought possible. Some Dominants might reward you for accomplishing certain chores or duties while others might punish you for mistakes and errors.
On His X account, @Dom_top_nyc shares the chastity rules and rewards that He has with His sub. Every chastity relationship is tailored to the will of the Dom and the service of the sub. Personalised experiences only!
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Real-Life Stories of Men in Chastity
Nothing is more informative than reading someone else’s life experience regarding our chastity lifestyle. There is much to learn (and to get turned on by) when you read what other men wearing cock cages go through. I thought it would be interesting to give you a few links of well-written chastity cage stories. Enjoy!
- Reddit: We all know this website where on can find anything and a little bit more. In the community r/ChastityStories you can find their Real-Life Male Chastity Archive where you can spend hours and hours reading. Bonus if you are wearing your chastity device, you’ll feel that special pinch with every sentence.
- Have you ever made a bet with your partner that you ended up loosing? What if that bet was to be your wife’s sissy slave? This is exactly what happens in this great story where MaleChastityLife looses a football bet that changes his life forever.
- In his blog, he also speaks about his cuckholding experience. Careful, these cuckhold stories might push your chastity game up a notch! Parts 1 to 5 of the Cucked Abroad experience are my favorites.
This allows you to take expectations out of your sexual encounters and be free to live your sexual needs as something to enjoy instead of fear. Also, it gets you to focus on pleasing your partner, rather than worrying about being able to.
Psychological dynamics in chastity play
Ayzad, the writer behind BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism explains very well the appeal of denial.
He says that removing genital stimulation from your life can have a surprisingly grounding, if not calming, effect, and I could not agree more.
First off, if you’re not allowed to use your cock, any fear of your sexual performance immediately goes away. No more trying to rise to ridiculous standards; nobody cares if you cum in 30 seconds, if you have a tiny cock, or if you get soft in the middle of the act. Poof, relief.
This allows you to take expectations out of your sexual encounters and be free to live your sexual needs as something to enjoy instead of fear. Also, it gets you to focus on pleasing your partner, rather than worrying about being able to.
Ayzad compares it to “the unending frustration we felt as teenagers, when our desire for a partner was at its peak yet generally unreciprocated. That was uncomfortable, sure, but also the engine of an incredibly powerful yearning that fueled elaborate sex fantasies, and the motivator for presenting ourselves at our best. The mere mental association with such a youthful and usually happy time is enough to make guys feel in their prime again, and behave accordingly.” This powerfully fuelled newly acquired sexual fantasies allow you to open up to non-normative and even highly judged sexual practices.
Enjoy Your Chastity Journey
Being informed helps reduce any chastity cage challenge you might face. Knowing what to expect from male chastity and how to choose the right chastity cage is important, but it’s even more vital to have good communication with your keyholder.
Consensual power exchange dynamics (such as giving up access to your cock) have an emphasis on consensual. You chose to give up control, so don’t try to take it back. Defying the authority you gave your Dom/me is like cooling down the frying pan that you heated. What’s the point? For your Dom/me and you, building trust is essential for a proper and fun exchange.
As my Mistress would say: “If you’re going to do something, do it well.” Trust me when I tell you that chastity is something you really want to do well. Being locked fills your soul as much as it fills your balls.
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