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When you start to consider male chastity, plenty of questions pop into your head:
- What is it? Is male chastity dangerous?
- Does wearing a cock cage hurt?
- Does chastity cause long-term problems?
- How can a chastity cage spice up my relationship?
- How do I choose the correct chastity device?
- What are the effects of chastity?
With over 10 years of experience as a chastity cage manufacturer and an active lifestyle participant, I’ve lived or I’ve met people that have gone through all the possible scenarios. In this male chastity guide, I will go over everything you need to know about male chastity and the wonders it can do for you and how it can help rekindle the flame of your relationship.
All that I say is based on my own experience as a long-term heterosexual caged male.
Posted by: Austin Madore
What Is Male Chastity
Male chastity is the practice of locking up your cock into a chastity cage (commonly referred to as a cock cage or chastity device).
This experience might sound unpleasant; however, it can be extremely pleasurable. When the caged person starts to become erect while locked, he will only swell up inside, which feels like a firm grip around the penis.
This builds arousal which continues to build the longer the orgasm is denied. This pent up arousal can even become more intense than the orgasm they so desire. Once the cock is freed from its cage, the orgasm it will be more intense than any other he has ever experienced in his life.
The longer the person is in a male chastity device, the more intense the final orgasm can be. Having a caged cock is not about pain or punishment; it’s about painless sexual pleasure and enhancement, orgasm denial, and orgasm control.
Brief history and evolution of chastity cages
Chastity belts were originally designed for women, starting from the 15th century. Back then, it was about controlling the female’s sexuality, with or (mainly) without her consent. The historical perception of women as being property of their husband or father, whether because of religious reasons or societal pressures.
Chastity cages and belts today are still used to control the sexuality of an individual, be it a male or a female, but within the context of consent and the excitement of power exchange. This is what makes it so prominent in the BDSM scene.
In such a scenario the submissive is locked into a male chastity device by the Dominant (referred to as a keyholder). They decide when (or “if”) the chastity device can come off. The length of time is determined by the keyholder, and can vary from a few hours to a 24/7 continual chastity lifestyle.
Since it must always be consensual, a chastity contract can be drafted (or at least discussed) to that both the submissive and the Dominant understand the rules and limits, and the play can be carried out safely.
The design of chastity devices has evolved and become more and more sustainable, discreet and comfortable, spacing from full belts models, to small and micro chastity cages.
Product Discovery
Best SellerTHE VICE MINI
Tiny Chastity CageTHE VICE CLITTY
For TheVice™THE VICE MICRO
THE VICE PLUS
BEST SELLERTHE VICE STANDARD
NEWFLATHEAD CHASTITY CAGE
Excerpt from U.S. patent 995,600 by Jonas E. Heyser.
Modern The Vice Chastity Cages in different colors and sizes.
The Kinky Pleasure Behind Male Chastity
Why would a man give up control over his orgasms? We all love a nice jerk-off session. But that energy boost that fuels our body and that enhances our sexuality and our masculinity might not be as great as we have made it believe. Giving up control can be the strongest kink of them all.
In my case, orgasm denial has allowed me to refocus my energy into so many other projects, both sexual and nonsexual. Masturbation had become an almost unconscious act for me, a way of releasing stress or helping get rid of that midnight hard-on that didn’t let me sleep.
In a digital world where porn is free and easily available, orgasming was like routine maintenance of my car: something that needed to be done and as fast as possible. It was about the destination (ejaculation) and not the journey.
What is being caged like? Insights of being a submissive
Here are some of the main benefits of wearing a chastity cage and experiences I have had over the past decade as a submissive locked straight male:
- Improved self discipline: As I mentioned above, being denied of my primal sexual desires, I had to learn to control myself and refocus that energy.
- Exploration for increased sexual pleasure: The built up arousal after 5 weeks of being locked pushed me to open my mind and discuss with my keyholder other non-normative sexual pleasures. Exploring new doors such as prostate stimulation has given me orgasms I never thought I could have.
- Improved communication: Speaking of topics that are considered taboo opened all doors between me and my keyholder. Now we can talk about any and all topics, also non-sexual conversations.
- Strengthened relationship: Talking better, entering into a non-normative relationship and the new level of complicity that we have achieved has done wonders for our relationship.
- New levels of trust: Having a Dom/sub relationship has laid for me the foundation to establish deeper levels of trust. Literally giving someone the key to your sexual freedom has pushed me, my Domme and our relationships to heights we would’ve not had otherwise.
Now, an orgasm has become so much more. It has become something I desperately look forward to, something I would do anything to get.
It has created a deeper bond and a higher level of complicity between me and my partner/keyholder. I could never go back to a non-chastity lifestyle. I would never go back.
What Is A Chastity Cage? How Can I Choose The Right One?
A chastity cage is exactly what it sounds like. A cage for your cock. There are different types of cock cages made of various materials, sizes, shapes, colors, and textures. Don’t get overwhelmed; choosing your first cage is something to be excited about, not scared of.
To get a more in-depth explanation on how to choose the perfect chastity cage for you, check out my article on How to Choose The Right Chastity Cage.
Cock Cages Styles and Materials
There are mainly three different styles: open cage, closed tube and hybrids. The styles are also self-explanatory.
They each have a different way of being used, different hygiene needs, and different sensations/experiences. Open cages are easier to clean because they have bigger holes where you can soap up while closed cages have the excitement of having absolutely no vision (and therefore no touching or sensation whatsoever) of your dick.
Discuss with your future keyholder (if you have one) which type they find more interesting. Ensure your cage has a proper drain hole, and let your imagination run through its wildest fantasies.
When it comes to materials, you can usually find stainless steel chastity cages, which gives you a great medieval or industrial feel, high-grade plastic (the best first cages, in my opinion), 3D-printed materials, silicone, and even an out-of-the-ordinary chainmail, which creates a sensation of being simultaneously locked up and not locked up—a true mind game!
Free Your Relationship By Caging Your Cock
Opening the kinky door of your relationship can be something life-altering. It’s normal to be scared of being judged by our partners, by others, or even by ourselves. Society has turned sex into a taboo topic that we shouldn’t talk about. You should want to have intercourse, and it should always be great, but within the norm and not really talking about it. It’s a bit illogical.
This topic is extensive and delicate, which is the reason I decided to give it the importance it deserves in two posts: Benefits of Male Chastity in Your Relationship: Obedience, Libido & Complicity where I talk about how long-term chastity play changed my life and relationship and Chastity Cage Play: Get The Most Out Of It where I talk about how to immerse yourself and fully take advantage of this experience.
If you’re freaking out about talking to your partner about this topic, think that if you have this kinky side, what makes you believe that they don’t? You can open the Pandora Box of Pleasure for your relationship, and you’ll both enjoy it, so why not?
Are Chastity Cages Safe?
The first chastity tip is that if it hurts, there’s something wrong, so listen to your body. If your balls turn blue, your dick becomes numb, or your skin starts to bleed, take it off. Don’t get discouraged, there’s nothing wrong with your cock. Most likely you chose the wrong size of cage or ring. Wearing a cock cage is about giving up control, not having your cock fall off.
Now, just like with everything, common sense can really help. Yes, chastity cages are safe when used correctly. It’s essential to get to know your cage, its components, and how they fit together so that, in case of an emergency, you can take it off quickly. Also, you should always keep the second key in an accessible place, just in case. If you want some tips on how to have your key at hand without having the temptation of using it, check out my article, Are Chastity Cages Safe? It’s On You. Here’s Why
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