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Chastity cages are a pretty straightforward concept. It’s a cage for your penis. When I decided to start this blog, I had specifically in mind newcomers to chastity life.
That’s why I thought to answer the most frequently asked questions that newcomers or people external to the lifestyle often ask; this can be useful both for your personal knowledge, and also to explain someone new to male chastity, what your favorite kink is about.
Keep reading to understand how chastity cages work and how they can bring a spark back into your relationship, as they did with mine.
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First and foremost: what are Chastity Cages
I’ll keep this short: a chastity cage is a physical device used for bondage and control practices on male genitalia, by preventing touching, having satisfactory erections (or erections at all), or any kind of stimulation leading to the natural sexual intercourse or masturbation.
Cock cages are made in various materials, generally steel or plastic, and come in all colors, shapes and sizes. The incredible world of male chastity unlocks for you when you lock your cock.
If you want to learn how to make your journey one step further through permanent chastity and orgasm denial, we have two great articles on it:
Why do people use Chastity Cages
I often get asked, once one understands what is the male chastity lifestyle “why would you want to wear a chastity device? what does a chastity cage feel like? what is its meaning?”.
A chastity cage’s purpose is to give up complete control over your penis, your orgasms, your sexuality, your “manhood”. It’s a lifestyle of consensual sexual abstention. Your keyholder can train you into learning a new way of finding pleasure in discipline and obedience, and tease you with Orgasm Denial, Ruined Orgasms and Cum Control.
Equally, you can discover the reward that having An Amazing Chastity Orgasm will mean to you. Or, how it feels to be punished by letting your balls get so full you start to leak. All of this, once experienced, is so exciting and engaging, that it’s very hard to stop.
Also, for most kinksters a chastity cage has a deeper meaning than just physically locking up your cock. It’s a holistic experience where your mind, body, and sexual energy are enhanced, allowing you to discover new horizons of pleasure, complicity, and submission.
Why is Male Chastity the latest trend?
Male chastity has been around for a long time but like many other kinky practices and gear, has recently gained much popularity. Locktober and NoNutNovember are movements that have shown the modern man all the benefits male chastity can have. It allows us to refocus our sexual energy on more than just ejaculation. It gives sexuality a different meaning and can bring back the excitement both in your personal sex life as an individual, and both into a relationship.
So, why are more and more men adhering to this lifestyle, or so often fantasizing about it? What does a chastity cage do to you?
Locking yourself can free so many other parts of you. In your day-to-day life, a cock cage it’s a comforting presence and a reminder of ownership or intimacy with your keyholder, like a wedding ring. Giles, interviewed by Men’sHealth, adds
“It’s the masochistic thrill of not being able to get off.”
So yeah, hot.
What does a chastity cage do and how it works
One might think all a chastity cage does is keeping your penis locked. The truth is that there are many different kinds of chastity devices, and the best ones achieve specific effects leveraging the anatomy and hydraulic system of the male reproductive organs.
So all cock cages have the aim of restricting access to your penis, and make penetration impossible, and conventional genital stimulation pointless. But, the effect on your body, the sensation and the presence or absence of pain, depend by a set of variables.
Inverted chastity cages, as an example, are designed to allow the swelling of an erection to grow inwards in your body. A standard chastity device that has a very snug and compressive fit, on the other hand, will impede the penis to grow in girth, and depending on how firmly tight is the ring, for the penis to expand in any way.
These kind of situations, paired with a vibrating wand as an example, can lead to incredible new ways to live an orgasm and genital pleasure in general, with a pain-free experience.
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Anatomy of a Chastity Cage
Cock cages come in many shapes and forms but are usually composed of the same components:
Chastity Rings (or Cock Rings)
Spacers
Spacers are designed to regulate the distance from the cock cage and the chastity ring; as Master Lupus said in his article on how to chose the right chastity cage, every man is different, and every single set of of cock and balls (pardon my french) is different.
That’s why high quality chastity cages have several spacers, so that you can personalize and adjust the distance between the two parts, for the perfect fit.
Cock Cage
It’s the structure where you will place your penis into. Just slide it in and let it take its place. Its proper sizing depends on your objective. If you aim just to block contact with your penis, a cage that is a standard size, such as TheVice Standard could be a great option. If, on the other hand, you’re looking to shrink your penis, you can start with the Micro and work your way to the Clitty. Your penis has an incredible adaptability thanks to the erectile tissue, so you can start with whichever size your fantasy is.
Learn more: Male Chastity Shrinking: Myth and Reality.
Locking Pin
The Locking pin keeps together the Chastity Ring and the Cock Cage, securing them firmly once a chastity lock has been snapped trough the hole at the end of it.
Chastity cages designed to work with traditional padlocks, will normally have a locking pin. Alternatively, some locking mechanism work with a barrel lock, typically for smaller chastity cages or inverted chastity devices.
Locking Mechanism
It wouldn’t be a cage if you could open and close it whenever you wanted, right? The symbolic aspect of the lock is just as important as its actual function: to keep you locked up well.
Most cages have a padlock that stays on top of the cage; in that case, normally a locking pin is present. The sound of the lock locking becomes one of the sweetest sounds when you’ve been locked for an extended period. Other cages come with a barrel lock resembling your average door’s keyholes. They go into the cage and lock it from within. These are great for someone who leads a very active life since there’s no bouncing of the padlock or the tic, tic, tic noise coming from your crotch.
Some notorious cages have a digital mechanism controlled via an app, which can be great for long-distance relationships or if you have to travel.
Something else I am asked all the time is what does a chastity cage feel like; does it hurt? The answer is that If appropriately sized, wearing a cock cage is a painless experience sexual abstention. It does require adjustments, and some exploration and patience.
Wearing a Chastity Cage is a rewarding experience
I hope that with this coverage of the topic you’ll have now a lot to think about and more information in your journey in male chastity.
A chastity cage can feel terrible, or great, depending on numerous factors. Finding the right fit and the right cage style for your anatomy and needs if paramount, but also the mindset with which you’re joining the lifestyle counts.
If you’re doing this for temporary fun, you will notice the pinching, rubbing, and new sensations of temporary discomfort much more as a stopper, rather than if you were in a relationship with a keyholder or owner; so, while starting your adventure, it’s also important to consider the purpose of the chastity cage. Is it a lifestyle choice, or a fun accessory? Let me know in the comments what’s your chastity style, I’d be really curious to read the feedback!
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